How Are You?
We say it without thinking. But are we actually waiting for the answer? This isn’t about small talk. It’s about what it really means to care…to slow down, to listen, and to show up when it matters most.
1–8 June 2027 · Nosy Be & Nosy Komba
Eight days across two islands
for twelve women.
Adventure, sisterhood and space to reconnect with more of yourself.
So much of who we believe ourselves to be has been shaped by what we’ve learnt, what others have expected of us, and the roles we’ve taken on along the way. But who were you before the world told you who to be?
The Unbecoming Journey is the philosophy woven through every experience we create, from our journeys and retreats to our circles and mentorship.
See what you have stopped questioning.
Notice what you are carrying, and ask whether you still choose it.
Remember what has always been true.
Choose from what matters to you now.
Live in relationship with yourself again.
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Retreats, circles and experiences that create the space to step away from the everyday and encounter The Unbecoming Journey for yourself.
Private one-to-one work for the moments when something in your life is asking for your attention, your choice and your action.
Jessica · Brighton, UK
I had known Akua for quite a long time before I worked with her, and I’d watched her make some really big changes in her life. I think what struck me was that she had actually done it. She’d made some hard choices herself, and she’d always been very open about that. So when I got to a point where I felt really stuck, I knew I wanted to work with her.
There was a lot going on in my life. My marriage was ending, one of my children had left home the year before, I was working all the time, and somewhere in the middle of all of that I’d lost track of me a bit.
I was getting on with things. I was functioning. But if you’d asked me what I wanted for myself, I honestly couldn’t have told you.
The 12 weeks gave me time to really look at where I was and what I wanted next. Some of the conversations were hard. There were things I hadn’t wanted to look at, and things I realised I’d been holding onto because I was scared of what would happen if I let them go.
What changed for me was that I stopped trying to get everything back to how it had been before. I started thinking about what I wanted my life to look like now.
That was huge for me.
I’ve made some decisions since that I don’t think I would have made before. I’m not second-guessing everything in the same way, and I’m definitely not putting myself at the bottom of the list anymore.
I think I needed someone who understood that starting again can be frightening, even when you know it’s the right thing to do. Akua understood that.
Vicky · London, UK
Akua is a true catalyst for personal and professional growth. Her ability to pinpoint strengths and areas for improvement is uncanny. She helped me recognise my potential and guided me towards realising my goals and ambitions, both for my start-up business and personally.
Akua is not just a coach; she is a mentor, a confidant and a trusted advisor. What sets her apart is her genuine care for her clients. She took the time to understand my unique journey and tailored her approach to my specific needs. Her insights, strategies and unwavering support were instrumental in my growth.
Her commitment to my success was palpable, and it’s a rare gift to have someone in your corner who believes in you wholeheartedly.
If you’re looking for someone to guide you, inspire you and propel you towards success, I wholeheartedly recommend Akua.
We say it without thinking. But are we actually waiting for the answer? This isn’t about small talk. It’s about what it really means to care…to slow down, to listen, and to show up when it matters most.
Most of us were never taught to trust ourselves. We were taught to look outside of ourselves, to seek the checklist, the approval, the title, the plan. To define success through external markers. To measure our worth by how well we performed, the roles we inherited.
Let me be real…it was one of the hardest things I’ve ever done. No talking, no eye contact, no reading, no writing, no music, no phone. Just silence, and over ten hours of meditation a day. But it was also one of the most powerful experiences of my life.